How I Learned to Stop Controlling My Kiddos

by Nina Vallone, posted in Parenting Teens, Teenagers

Last summer, my senior daughter informed me of her decision to NOT run cross country this year, a sport she’s run since fifth grade. My first reaction (in my head, thank the stars!) was “WHAT? COME ON! THAT IS SO CRAZY!  IT’S SENIOR YEAR. WHY??? HOW WILL THIS LOOK ON THE COLLEGE APPLICATIONS?” My real … Continue reading How I Learned to Stop Controlling My Kiddos

Realizing My Parents Were People Grew Me Up – Real Quick

by Nina Vallone, posted in adult children, aging parents

I was sitting across from my Dad at the Bagel on Belden. The year was 1995. It was a Saturday, mid-morning and I was slightly hungover and forever grateful my Dad was paying for my tuna on rye with a whopping cup of coffee. I was 24, living in Boys town and met up with … Continue reading Realizing My Parents Were People Grew Me Up – Real Quick

Knowing Obama’s Farewell Address is Hours Away Gives Me Heavy Boots

by Nina Vallone, posted in Uncategorized

Tonight, President Obama will give his farewell address. I, like many, feel a sense of loss and despair. Loss at the notion that someone I felt could lead and inspire with hope, intelligence and grace is leaving the Oval Office. Despair at the reality that the President Elect is happy to be known as a … Continue reading Knowing Obama’s Farewell Address is Hours Away Gives Me Heavy Boots